Sunday, November 14, 2010

Parents how to help candidates

 Since the radio for the majority of candidates presented on the correction side branches after the special program, many students and parents received a letter and a message. For this reason, Sina, I have some of the relevant section in the issue of concentration to do a more specific Answers (may consult the Beijing Radio accompany the child during the period,UGG shoes, particularly the father! because often determine the child's father paid off, I was last year's youth newspaper published a similar article. The reason: his mother is the engine, the father is the gas station, if the car forward run, no gasoline is impossible. father to his children's energy, the mother can not be replaced, and vice versa.
that nothing can be negotiable! days of the parent, for the mother, in the middle of the trees are to become useful, it all depends on whether the good weather. Therefore, one can not love their parents.
Furthermore, the child exams as on the battlefield, then they are most worried about is the headquarters of the fodder is safe. In fact, this forage is not a nutrition and school fees, but the family, especially their parents . If the poor child will have a potential for unrest, this anxiety can not be seen or touched,UGGs, but will consume most of his energy. This is the findings of psychology, so everything has to be.
Second, regardless of the child's expectations are high, suggesting the child must be: No matter how well you test, we will love you as usual, test scores can not decide our relationship with you.
and not indulge in every day to children Hypnosis: you must be admitted to certain University, if not pass the test, how would you how the future? or: How will our hearts.
to know the child's life, the entrance is just one stop for anyone, end all death. If you suggest to the child if admitted to the University to your ideals, goals, equivalent to implying that he has come to an end. so even if he entered the university will not be too promising, and some even have mental illness also .
Third, do not take care of perhaps, this invisible pressure to make the candidates how parents breathe mm so good to me, and not the same as usual? Oh, is that I am different now, then, if I did well, the more injured of parents!
parents can imagine, athletes play before, most afraid of? to him if the above tasks, able to fulfill the will make the top down, he will maintain a sense of balance? If no sense of balance, how to play his normal level?
Therefore, do not give children a variety of forms of pressure, do do, is no different with the usual. You know, he is your child, the family will trace changes in let them who have decided that he cares about most is the parents emotional, behavioral changes, and if the change led them to also change dramatically, the responsibility parents afford to do?
Fourth, lack of confidence of the children, this Time must be more sure. If the usually parents of the child severely, blame used to, then it may lead to child has an inferiority complex, this inferiority is the stumbling block to impede his progress. Therefore, for such candidates, not to strict, but rather to tell him: you usually strict, has the quality of your training as well, as long as you keep like this now, do their best to review, I think you should have no problem. because, Yuan Weimin usually very strict requirements on the women's volleyball team, so They only take five coherence in the field, proving that they usually have training in place, in fact, like you, believe in yourself!
five strong and science weak liberal arts candidates, and get smart about, often unwilling to back such a person , hate a single, boring, in fact, lazy. At this point, his father accompanied him to repeat, patiently waiting, repeat down the kids insisted, if the candidates are the son, even at home, only to the temporary creation of a father and his the male dormitory, if the candidates is the daughter of the father is more pleasant to be around from time to time to treat. when they do not go on repeating it,bailey UGG boots, my father would more severely, of course, these apply only to the strong passive candidates.
If the arts strong and science weak, and character stubborn and difficult transformation related. Moreover, such children are often adept at dealing with reality, many people see things only used to come to the surface, but refused to depth. The parents of the candidates, but also to maintain harmony The husband and wife relationship. Normally, parents do not just look at one aspect of the problem, and to cover everything, and everything right, all science, but also say why. particularly in the counseling candidates, often only one step on the permeability of the children This step should be to push him,UGG boots clearance, that is, laws and methods available to candidates, provided the process is to encourage the process, the process of love.
if English is not good, let him wrong question, do not be distracted Bei large word or grammar, or to nibble the text. as long as he corrected the wrong question is completed, results must be improved.
if politics is not good to tell him the wisdom of philosophy is the discipline, in fact, no subjects in this title. and , will come to work, that is, social science-based, if not now a political (political and economic philosophy) to understand the social, one will not spend money, two will not stock, nor about financial management, the four bosses and politicians will not , then the future can only be unrealistic expectations blocked everywhere.
If biological is not good, to tell him: you are every day engaged in biological engineering, before you were born, the parents of the egg has been done, and then let you through the cell division has grown to today, and will continue hh, therefore, is to understand the biological basis of their discipline, if not even know about, it means not to know themselves, do not accept themselves. Therefore, love yourself, to understand life, to start things from the students !
six, on history, geography and learning methods, has been very clear on the radio, if you want further information, you can visit to listen to Beijing Radio Network.
In short, the family stronghold, is to ensure that the child win the war the premise, but also the psychological internal candidates, strictly speaking, the subjects only teachers, it is only a external, because under favorable weather seedlings grow, if gardeners, may be more safe side. 

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